Amazing Paper Grace

Becca:

I’m still lifing you up. Take all the time you need. We, your dedicated Blog friends ( I hope I can speak for them) will give you all the time you need. I’m thankful you had many beautiful and memorable times with John. These memories will comfort you in days to come.ReplyCancel

You have been on my mind ever since I read the awful news – I’m so, so sorry for your loss. I lost my favorite aunt to Mulitple Myeloma a few years ago. Cherish your sweet memories and know that you were a good wife and are very much loved by many people, most notably John.ReplyCancel

I echo Robbie’s sentiments – your beautiful words and vision of a strong, loving marriage to your best friend is a true blessing. I am married to a man with whom I was in kindergarten, junior high, high school and beyond. We’ve been married for 38 years and I, too, praise God for putting him in my life. Thank you for sharing these thoughts and touching others with them. God bless you and your family with peace and His ever-constant presence.
Kris, Wadsworth, OHReplyCancel

Hi Becca, I lost my grandfather to Multiple Myeloma in 1988 and I can’t tell you how proud I am of you for your strength to support your husband through that time and your husbands’ strength to persevere through his stuggle.ReplyCancel

Becca: I join the others in sending my prayers and support your way. Isn’t God good to bless us with people in our lives that we can love and make memories with? When I lost my dad as a pedestrian victim, it was ever so hard. But the love of God, family, and friends along with memories of him somehow all combined to make a support system like no other in the world. Looking back, we know that is what really helped us through that hard time. May we (your blog followers) somehow add strength to that support network for you and help you on your journey of healing after your loss. Much love and many hugs to you at this time and always. {I just marvel at how I have become attached to you and have never met you in person! That just shows the power of the human family when we come together in a common cause. Wow. So neat.}ReplyCancel

Becca
All my hugs and prayers to you right now, we are all behind you, we love you don’t ever forget that, Hold on to those memeories, and take one day at a time,
hugs
Michele S.ReplyCancel

Gosh…….what wonderful, wise words Becca, and at such a terrible time for you too….I feel very honoured and also humble to be privy to your thoughts and feelings – please know that I’m just one among what must be many hundreds of people across the world wishing you well….God Bless xxxReplyCancel

It’s so nice to hear from you again Becca, I have truly missed your daily blog updates, but also know that you have been extremely busy these past couple of weeks trying to get your life back together and feeling normal again, which I’m sure will take some time. Your love for John would always shine through in your blogs and with that and all the wonderful memories that the two of you shared, and the many, many friends that you have been blessed with, I have no doubt in my mind that you’ll get through this.

Still praying for you Becca,

Judy from VermontReplyCancel

Everyone is blessed to have you back Becca! You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers and I wish you continued strength.
Yes…one day at a time…I for one am looking forward to your inspiration and always check your blog…even though I can’t post all the time…I’m ALWAYS here… :)
MarianReplyCancel

God’s blessings to you and your family. I was so sad to learn of your loss. Your words of love and strength are an inspiration to those of us with a spouse. We should all be reminded that each day truly is a gift. I was in the hospital for a week and my hubby brought my computer when I was up to typing with different iv needles in my arms. I cried when i read your blog. Please know that many of us on the keyboards in cyberspace send you oodles of hugs and prayers.
Stay well,
AnnMarieReplyCancel

Dear Becca, I am so sorry for your loss, but like you we know God will pick us up and hold our hand when we need his love the most. I am glad to see you are feeling somewhat better. As for your admirers in the blogging world we are here for you whenever you need us. You have inspired us so much with your talents and your loving strength for your family. May God conntinue to bless you and strengthen you and your family.ReplyCancel

Becca,
In this modern world of blogging we somehow feel we know you and we really don’t. That dose not mean you have not touched our lives with your talents and heart felt words.You have made me think of my relation ship with my husband and family. We are not promised a life of everything good.God gives us all gifts and talents and strength to live our lives to our fullest to give honor and glory to HIM.I see that in your words and beautiful cards.You are surrounded by people who love you but most of all you have the comfort of knowing that God is good and faithful, what peace that must be in this difficult time. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
A friend you have never met,
DonnaReplyCancel

Yes, Becca, it will never get any easier. It just gets less hard, and a little more bearable. God is so faithful to hold us up, and He becomes even more our sustainer. With tears in my eyes today as I read your blog, it becomes even more real how God loves us and will forever be our complete source of strength and encouragement. Holding tighter to Him is the only answer. There’s a song that Pastor sang for me, “When answers aren’t enough there is Jesus”. May that be your ever present knowledge, there is Jesus. My continued love and prayers to you!ReplyCancel

I have been busy retiring from work and then an immediate vacation but your card (not homemade) hit the mail today. I was so sorry to hear about your loss. I lost my husband 6 years ago and it will take awhile to adjust. You will be doing just great then out of the blue something will trigger your emotions. It might be a commercial advertising thier favorite food or a church pitch in where their favoriate pie is displayed. My husband loved cherry pie and I never cared for it but I always pick the cherry pie to eat in honor of his memory. I am getting to where I sort of like cherry pie. Anyway enough about me. I know the Lord has his hands on you. Something strange happened…within a couple of weeks two card making websites that I visit all the time the wives have both lost thier husbands. I pray for you both.ReplyCancel

Becca, It was a lovely surprise to find your message on the blog today. What a brave & couragous person you are to think of your ‘bloggers’ at such a time, and we are grateful to you. You & John walked a hard road together these last years, but you made it; & you made it count for something. Now you have to continue this road – for the moment – alone. BUT you are NOT really alone. God is there with you,… remember Footsteps in the Sand. Also, John is there too. As long as the love remains, so does the loved one. Just not there physically, but on another level. You take the time to do what YOU need to recover the ‘you’. Know that all your blogger friends will understand and wait until you are totally ready. As usual the card is wonderful, and SO are you. Hope that I can meet you someday. God Bless and shelter you in His loving arms until you are strong enough to make your own ‘Footsteps’ once more. And Baby Steps are just fine, until you can make regular footsteps again.ReplyCancel

Becca, I can not know the pain you have felt, but I do know that love is timeless and yours will last for an eternity and one day you and John will be reunited in heaven and can share the love Our Lord has for us all. PLease know the connection of your blog friends is too one of love and caring. God’s blessings on you and your children.ReplyCancel

Thank you sweet Becca for sharing with us what you have been through. I lost my step dad John to multiple myeloma many years ago – it’s not a kind disease. I’m glad that your John rallied and had some good years. Lifting you up in thought and prayer. May your happy, warm memories bring you comfort and peace – today and in the future.ReplyCancel

What a beautiful note from you, Becca. You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.ReplyCancel

It was so good to click on my e-mail this morning and see your post. I have thought of you every day and have walked this walk with you both on a personal and spiritual level. I am looking forward to all you have to bring us and I know that it will bring blessings to us and be a healing for you. Thanks for sharing with us. AnnaReplyCancel

There really are no words of comfort that will make things all better but I pray for you and your family to find the time to enjoy the small moments of time that you find happy memories. It is in these happy moments that you can find healing. God doesn’t give use more than we can handle though sometimes I wonder myself.ReplyCancel

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings. I am so happy that you and John had the years together. May the Lord continue to uplift you and help you over the rough times.ReplyCancel

Becca,
You are such a strong woman and such an inspiration. You have such a gift for creating beautiful cards but I feel that even if you didn’t create and you only blogged about your faith I would still come to read. I have felt for a long time that the words you share about your faith are important. Please don’t be afraid to share with us what is on your heart. We are hear to “listen” and mostly to pray for you. Your love for your husband is such an example of God’s true love and you have encouraged me to not take my family for granted. May God continue to give you strength for each day. His mercies are new every morning.
Hugs and prayers
crystalReplyCancel

Lots of love and prayer being sent your way.
ValerieReplyCancel

Thank you for continuing to inspire your blog friends, Becca! As you walk this difficult path of grief, please know that many are standing with you and are being blessed by your courage and strength and the creativity that continues to pour from your hands.ReplyCancel

Hi Becca! I’m so sorry for your loss! It’s never easy to lose someone who’s been a part of our lives for many years. I lost my dad in December 2007, and it’s still hard realizing he’s not here. He died here in my home and he, too, rallied after we were told he had 6 months to live. But God had a plan for him, and he lived another 14 months. We don’t always know the end from the beginning, but I know of a certainty that, if we put our lives in His hands, we can’t go wrong. Someone once said, “We have nothing to fear for the future except as we forget how the Lord has led us in the past.” Hold on to that promise, and trust that He will take care of you. Like you, I miss my dad very much, but, as he always used to say, “Discouragement is the anesthetic that the devil gives you just before he cuts your heart out.” He also used to say, “Keep looking up!” Words to live by, huh? Take care of yourself now. As a caregiver, it’s hard to think about doing anything for yourself, but you must if you are to survive!!

(((HUGS)))ReplyCancel

Sweet Becca,
you have been on my heart so often and I pray for you often!! Take your time and take those baby steps…there is nothing more important than you to take time for yourself!! I understand it will take time for you to heal. You have been with John, the love of your life, for so long, through sickness and health, literally, it is not going to be easy. Being a woman of faith you know that John is watching you from heaven, as GOD is giving you a little more strength and peace every day. I am looking forward to see what you’ll have to share with us and the changes you will make. Sending you lots of {{{HUGS}}} and prayers, Brina ;DReplyCancel

Becca: I am relatively new to your blog, and even though we have never met, it is amazing how the Holy Spirit binds us together in love. I can even say that I feel your loss. I will continue to pray for you as you proceed through this period and know that God’s grace will truly sustain you. You’re an amazing lady and glad to know you’re a sister in Christ.
CindyReplyCancel

Becca, when I open my computer in the mornings, your blog is always one of the first things I look for and you have made me look good. People keep telling me I am talented but I always tell them it is Becca Feeken who gives me the inspiration. I have a huge file with your creations. Now you give inspiration for those going through dark times.

You are still in my prayers for God’s continued strength and comfort. Life is not always easy, but it is so precious to have someone you love by your side. I can’t speak to your loss personally. I have been married 52 years to my life’s love (next to Jesus) and while we had a close call a year and a half ago, he is still with me.

You are loved by many who don’t know you personally. Your faithful love to your husband and your creative work are an inspiration to many of us and we feel like you are a personal friend.

God bless you in all things, NancyReplyCancel

Becca, I read your words this morning with tears in my ears. I’ve never met you but feel a strong connection through your blog. I have thought of you often since Kelly gave us the sad news that you lost your beloved John. Now I understand the name of your blog. You are definitely an amazing woman with such fabulous talent and faith. You have filled my life with grace and beautiful thoughts. Your paper creations are the best on the internet. Take small steps each day and celebrate the life you had with John. Again don’t worry about your blog. Just take the time to heal.
Many hugs and prayers.
Shirley L.
Roseville, CAReplyCancel

Becca, I just found out and am so deeply sorry, the love story you have shared with us over time was a farytale. I know you are richly blessed by gods love, that rains over you with each breath, as a women of faith you know that john is watching over you, he will be guiding you each step along with God. As I pray for you each day know that you are not alone. keep looking up open yor heart for the love we feel for you and or prayers, you are a beacon of hope, sunshine for me, I so love reading your blog. May God bless you today and everyday many hugs to you.ReplyCancel

It is wonderful to hear from you! I know you need time to heal and although there will always be a void there, your family and friends will also be there. You are an amazing person and I truly enjoy your work. I will continue to visit your blog so even if you don’t have time to craft, I enjoy hearing of your day. Please take care and know we will always be here!ReplyCancel

Your faith and love for your husband and God brings me to tears (good ones). I admire how strong you are and hope this will make you even stronger. Just wanted to send you a quick note to let you know that I am thinking of you even thought we don’t know each other. You are a wonderful person and I am so glad you ‘touch’ so many of us with your words and creations.ReplyCancel

Welcome home, it is so good to hear from you again. I want you to know how special you are to me, my friend. My heart has been full as I have prayed for you and your family these past two weeks. Thank you for sharing your heart as well as your art.ReplyCancel

Becca,

I will continue to lift you and your family up in prayer. I am so glad that
you will continue to be a part of my life through this blog ministry of yours. That is how i see your blog anyway, as a ministry. You are such a
blessing to me and i am sure to so many others. May God continue to
comfort you with his loving arms as we most certainly know he will.
Whatever and whenever you choose to share with us, I will be waiting
no matter how long it takes. Also, thank Kelly for us as well for keeping us updated in the interim.

Love in Christ,

Kathy HReplyCancel

Thank you, Becca for letting us know how you’re doing, and thank you, Kelly, for being such a good friend to Becca during this time! I cannot begin to imagine what you’re going through. I pray that God will continue to “Lift You Up” and that each passing day your love will not diminish, but the pain will. I love the song by that name. Hang in there, Becca! Hugs, prayers and love to you!ReplyCancel

Sweet lady, you make us see that life can go on after devastating circumstances. You are showing God’s grace in every thing you say and do. Hold your memories close and savor them! They are the best that life has to offer.
Hugs, DarsieReplyCancel

Becca,
It’s great to hear from you. I’ve been through this and it’s not easy but you take it one step at a time. Just keep putting one foot in front of the other and you will make it.
Share with friends if you feel like it. Do what is best for you now.
Hugs!!ReplyCancel

Becca, bless you my dear.. what you’ve written about your life with John, I could have written about my husband of 41 years..I know you’ve been magnificently blessed to have had him in your life, and I understand the sorrow and the emptiness you must be feeling with his loss.. I have followed your blog now for some time, and know too, what strength you have, and know you will come through this even stronger than before..
Blessings to you and yours!ReplyCancel

Becca, though I cannot know the pain that you feel, I just know that I hurt for you and your loss. Since first reading about your dear husband John’s passing, you have been in my thoughts, daily. Sending warm thoughts and cyber hugs for the difficult days ahead.ReplyCancel

Becca, It’s good to hear your “voice” again. Thank you for taking time out to share John’s history and hope it helps you to talk about it. It can be difficult for people to express their sympathy to you, but nothing said at all is worse. Know that we all care about you and your family and will continue to view your work in awe as usual. Your blog is the first one I go to every day and will always stay that way. Peace be with you!ReplyCancel

So good to hear from you again, Becca. My heart breaks for your loss and pain. Having lost my parents and five of my siblings plus my husband’s parents and sister, I know your pain. You have been blessed with a wonderful husband, but God lends these wonderful people to use for only a time. And the time they have spent with us is so very precious. Hold tight to the Lord and the wonderful memories you have gathered over the years. You are loved by so many and are an inspiration to all us all. Love and prayers to you and your family.ReplyCancel

Your nephew introduced me to your blog and I am so grateful he did. It is such an encouragement to see how God works in our lives even when we are forced to walk through the valleys. I am so sorry for your loss and will continue to keep you in my prayers and let me tell you I like to pray. I’m sure He thinks I could ease up a bit but He’s the Lord, He can take it. Sending you lots of love and blessings from Fargo, ND…ReplyCancel

I do not have many words as I am choked up right now. Please know how much we love you and continue to pray for you and your family.
God bless! AngieReplyCancel

Your words are as beautiful and special as your cards!
You were so blessed to have a great love like that with John
and it is so natural you would be wanting to keep him longer.
I will pray for your comfort and God’s love and peace to be so real
to you each day.
Hugs, Dawn V.V.ReplyCancel

Becca,
I know that exact feeling of not being able to breath. All I can say is that is does go away and you will once again breath deeply. I am so glad to here you had many extra years with your beloved John. God is better to us then He has to be.

DebbieReplyCancel

Dearest Becca –

I’ve been checking every day for any snippet of news and was overjoyed to see that you had posted!

You are such an inspiration on more than simply a creative level, Becca. Your blog is a testimony to love – love of God – love of your husband and family – love of creating beautiful projects – and love of sharing.

You brighten my day – as you obviously also do for so many others. We feel that we know you through your writings and creations and you have blessed us with your generosity.

The love that you and John shared shines through your writing and gives a wonderful testimony to any who stop by here. May the wonderful memories you have, particularly those of the last 3 years, ease your heart and may the knowledge that he is with our Lord and Saviour bring you peace.

You all continue in my thoughts and prayers.

Hugs
Anne (UK)ReplyCancel

Hugs and continued prayers for you and your family.ReplyCancel

Becca,
When I read of your John’s passing it was as though my heart stopped. You have been such an inspiration through your strength and talent. May the God of us all continue to guide you through this difficult path you are taking. The Lord will be with you and your family with His all powerful love. Remember that it takes time to go on, sometimes a minute or a second at a time but the Lord will always be with you.
Love to you all.ReplyCancel

Thank you so much for sharing this with us Becca. I am so pleased that you are beginning to take those first very tentative steps. Take your time we will not go away. God Bless.ReplyCancel

My heart hurts for the pain you have to go through at this time, my 24 year old son passed away April 28, 2001.. like you, I am so grateful for the love we all shared and all the great memories he left us with but sure do miss the hugs. Praying for peaceful moments in your days and that you always feel your husbands love around you…ReplyCancel

Becca, you are amazing. Here we are trying to lift you up and you end up lifting us up. Your courage and love filled spirit are inspiring. I lost my oldest son 4 years ago. If it had not been for God being in my life and in my heart, I do not think I would have made it. He is amazing. Know that I think of you everyday and my prayers go up for you and your family. Thank you for letting us in for just a little while.

DebbieReplyCancel

Dear Becca,

It has been so wonderful to read your wise and beautiful words today, and to know that you were feeling strong enough for a while to sit and write them.

I was so deeply saddened and shocked when I heard the news that you had lost your beloved John so suddenly, and I’ve been thinking of you every day. I’m truly sorry for your enormous loss and for the heartache you are suffering. It has been very comforting to know that you’ve been receiving such huge support from your dearest friend Kelly, who has also been a friend to us all, recently, bless her.

I am one of those who travelled backwards to the very first page of your blog when I first came across Amazing Paper Grace. Since then, you have been a daily inspiration, not only through your exquisite creations but also because you have shared your daily life, the love which has surrounded you and your family, the good times and the bad, all with such courage, wisdom and grace, and not least your ever-present special brand of humour.

It is heartening to learn that you’ve received such wonderful care and support from the companies you work with. I’m so glad to know that they’ve been there for you when you’ve needed them most.

I will most certainly pop-by to see you each day, and will delight, as always, in seeing more of your beautiful work on those days when you are feeling able … tiny little steps.

Thank you, Becca, for the huge pleasure you bring and for the inspiration you so generously share … you are Amazing.

I will be keeping you in my thoughts.
With Hugs & Love, MelodieReplyCancel

Becca, we understand that it may take a while before you feel chipper again. Know that we are here for you and prayers continue to go up on your behalf!ReplyCancel

No one can ever know exactly how you feel, but please take comfort in knowing that we share your grief and pain through the experiences in our own lives, and still, somehow, we come out stronger for it. The best thing you can hold right now is your memories – that’s what gets us through the hard times. You’re always in our thoughts and prayers.ReplyCancel

Becca, we understand you will need some time to work through this difficult time in your life. When you are ready to craft again, we will be here waiting. Take all the time you need. Please know that many prayers continue to go up on your behalf.ReplyCancel

Dear sweet Becca,
I am humbled to have read your hearfelt words this morning. I have not expected to hear from you so soon. Take all of the time you need, hold onto the memories and know, we your cyber family, will be with you every tiny step of the way. I wish I could hug you and cry with you. You have touched all of us so deeply during your difficult time. Thanks again to Kelly, she is your angel here on earth.
Love, Prayers and many hugs,ReplyCancel

Becca, your message is so encouraging, I pray that God continues to lift you up in a specail way. You have my prayers.
With love, VickyReplyCancel

Hi Becca ,

for me its difficult to write in english i’m flemish and live in Belgium .
So i cant express my self so good in english , but i do my best .
I want to give you and your family my deepest sympathy and
lots of strength , i will be keeping you in my thoughts .

Love and hugs to you all.
JennyReplyCancel

Becca,
What beautiful words in tribute to your husband, John. He was truely blessed to be so loved as are you.
I love to look at your work, and I know that will help you through this difficult time. God is all around us even in our crafts. He most of all will guide you. When things get hard for me I just know I can let him take those burdens and He will carry them for me.

You and your family are in my prayers,

Chris Handy, fellow card creator.ReplyCancel

Dear Becca

What an inspiration you are in every way. I am finding it difficult to put into words what I want to say, just sending love to you all the way from England, and I continue thank God for you. May you know His presence and receive His peace, moment by moment. With love.ReplyCancel

Becca, it is great to see words from you again. I am so happy you found the strength to write a bog entry. You have touched so many people with your amazing talent and the trials of you life. I have never met you in person, but I was very sad when Kelly told us of John’s passing. Through your blog I felt as if I knew you. You are truly a beautiful person. You share your talent and techniques without any financial gain. In todays world that is rare.
You are the reason I make cards today. Nearly 2 years ago I was looking for something and accidently stumbled into your site. I was in awe at what I saw and told myself I had to learn to do this. I spent hours that night looking at your archives. I was never interested in rubber stamping, until I saw how you took it to an art form. I followed your link to Splitcoast and the rest is history :)
You will laugh at this but when I am looking at pattern paper, a punch or embellishments I say to myself , “I wonder if Becca would use this?” And if I can see it is not your style I put it back on the shelf . Of course I have spent a small fortune on the products you use:)
I will continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers. If you feel like sharing a card or just sharing a memory we are here
Hugs
BarbaraReplyCancel

Becca, we know it will take a while for you to get through this difficult time in your life. You are an inspiration to all of us! Please know that many prayers continue to go up on your behalf.ReplyCancel

Good Day Becca! It is such a blessing to see you touching out again. I can so empathize with you in wonderment of the friends and “family” we meet and make on the internet. Several years ago I was in a terrible head on car collision when a new driver lost control and ended up in my lane. I had tried to remember everyone when I was able to regain my senses, but it was so hard. My internet friends had noticed that I hadn’t posted in a couple of days which was unusual, so one of them called around, verified that no one I usually talked to had heard from me and then got a phone book for the “area of the state” they knew I lived in and started calling. God blessed them with making a connection with my mother within 12 calls. Before I knew it, prayers were going up for me from one coast to another and even across the pond. Through God’s grace I have far exceeded what the doctors ever thought I could. Through His strength I complete each day as He allows me. I know that He is your strength, Lean on Him as much as you desire, you know He loves it. He has provided everyone around you for your growth, love, encouragement – endulge in it. Time will dull the sharp painful edges leaving only the most beautiful cherished memories you could ever imagine. I so anxiously look forward to see how God is going to move forward in and through you now as most everyone here is. Go at your own pace, we are here for you, we’ll continue to be here for you.
Love from a sister in Him, CindyReplyCancel

Oh, dear sweet, Becca –
what a surprising joy this am to see you have posted. I have looked everyday to see if your dear friend, Kelly had posted news of you and your family.
I lost the love of my life, almost 7 yrs ago now. I had many cyber and card-making friends who sent me messages that I still treasure. I can tell you some days are easier than others – but God is good.
My John and I as well as you and your John experienced a love that some people never know. I consider myself so blessed that God gave me the love of my life even if it was only for 18 yrs. We will be here my dear friend standing in the gap and keeping you uplifted on those days that your heart takes over. And if we might notice a little tear drop on a card; don’t worry we will shed one with you. Joshua 1:9 ( my life verse) love TReplyCancel

Your very positive attitude seems to be helping you through this! Good for you. Hold tight to those memories; maybe even sit and meditate on them when times are tough, you are lonely and missing him the most. I’m so glad you will be posting again so soon. Best wishes, RebeccaReplyCancel

Thanks for touching base with all of us. My continued thoughts and prayers are with you and the family. You are especially blessed with a devoted friend like Kelly.ReplyCancel

Becca, you and family are always in our prayers. Take the time you need and know that we, your blog friends, will be here with you. God bless you!ReplyCancel

thank you for sharing with us the changes and difficulties that you face. We will continue to lift you up as you get through this difficult process. Thank you for all that you share and do for us.
GaleReplyCancel

I think of you and pray for you everyday. May you continue to have the strength you need to get through this difficult time in your life.

CharmaineReplyCancel

Take it one day at a time, sometimes one minute at a time. Ask for help; people want to give it. There will be ups and downs, forward steps and backward slides. I pray for God to be with you during this time, and to hold you in his hands for a while, as he is now holding John. We love and cherish you.ReplyCancel

Becca, no matter what the illness or how much we know, we are never ready to lose someone we love. Even though we know we are supposed to rejoice in their passing, it still hurts us, the ones left behind. We stumble through the days and nights looking for some comfort wherever we can find it. Becca, let us be your strength during this difficult time. Know we are here for you and that God has his hand in this and is guiding you through. When you feel better, we will still be here waiting quietly and patiently in the wings, just out of ear shot but ready to help if needed. You may not see us, but we are here. I pray that you and your family may now find the strength to go forward one day at a time.ReplyCancel

Becca,
I am so glad to see your post. Even though I haven’t lost my husband, I lost my mom and all three of my living grandparents within 1 year. I know how difficult it can be. Some reminder comes out of left field and you are suddenly flooded with memories. Just be surrounded with God’s loving arms during this time and know that all your cyber friends continue to remember you and your family.
May God continue to comfort you and your family.ReplyCancel

This was a wonderful note. Glad that you have taken the first step, although difficult, it is a step that must be taken. You and your family are in our prayers.ReplyCancel

Dear Becca:

I am happy to hear from you again, and glad to see that you are recovering a bit. It will take a long time to mourn your John, but give it all the time you need. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.ReplyCancel

Thank you for the beautiful job you do every time you share a card or idea with us. I am again sorry that you lost John and I know it has to be so hard waking up each day without him. I know God is watching over you and helping to make you stronger each day. They say he never gives us more than we can handle and sometimes that seems to be an understatement, yet we survive. May your heart be less heavy and the loss less hurtful and replaced with good memories, love and joy for all you were and are because of John. Love and Prayers to you!ReplyCancel

Hello Becca,
I was glad to read your post today, it was so touching. I’m so glad that you’re feeling stronger and coping with things. I’ll be checking your blog every day and await more wonderful inspiration from you when you’re up to it.
Hugs Angela xxReplyCancel

Becca, you never cease to amaze us even in times of grief and sorrow. We wish you all the best and know that with each day life will get a little easier but memories will never be forgotten.

Love Tracy xxxReplyCancel

Dear Becca, You are so strong to share your feelings with us today. We are still thinking of you and sending you prayers. We will be her each step of the way.God will guide you and John will be there with you holding your hand. Take baby steps, your love and wonderful memories will help you through. Love and Hugs ChrisB xxxxReplyCancel

Much love to you, Becca! You have been in my thoughts dailyReplyCancel

Becka, you are more than welcome. You have been though a lot and I give you credit for your comments. You are a special lady with lots of talents. God Bless You! EdnaReplyCancel

Becka,
I’m praying for you and your every day. Will be here waiting for you when your ready. God Bless you and keep you.

PattyReplyCancel

It is when we go through the worst of times in our life we feel God’s love and grace the most. I was told once that when we are going through a painful or horrible if we pray or “talk” to God with thankfulness we will feel his love and grace. I hear this in you. You continue to thank God for giving you John and each and every day you had with him. May God continue to be your comfort and strength. How glorious it is to know that John is with the great I AM and that there will be a day when you are reunited with John. Praise God your John and you are His child. I look forward to being here with you when you are ready. Your sister in Christ……….. KellyReplyCancel

So glad to see you back here. I look every day at your blog. May God continue to lift you up and comfort you.ReplyCancel

dear blogging friend Becca
when I read your blog that your husband died, I got tears in my eyes, although I do not know him, but you always make so many beautiful things that I take my hat off
I am a loyal follower of your blog and you have really good hands of God, it got so you also have got the strength to be strong
I wish you much strength during this difficult time

God Bless you and keep you
Akkina from BelgiumReplyCancel

Becca
It is so good to hear from you again. My heart breaks for you and your family and you continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.

I have thought of you often in these past few weeks, and know that you have many difficult times ahead. Please know that I am here praying for you, especially during those hard times, when just a little thing will bring back floods of memories, when you need a hand to hold, or a shoulder to cry on – or a hug.

Your faith in God will help you through the next few months,
Take care of yourself.
MelissaReplyCancel

Becca you will remain in my prayers. You’re strength and courage is amazing!ReplyCancel

Dear Sweet Becca,
It is so wonderful to see you posting again! Your sweet friend Kelly’s love for you was so evident in her posts, and I so appreciate her keeping us informed. You have been in my prayers, and will continue to be. Please know that your online friends will be here for you as you continue to go through this difficult time.
With lots of love and prayers,
Donna GReplyCancel

Becca, beloved sister! I knewour God would carry you through these days, and He will carry you still, through the road ahead. He will never leave you, He hears you when you cry, He saves every tear and one day, one day, He will dry all those tears and there will be nothing but rejoicing! I’m so thankful that Kelly is holding up your arms, givinging you strength to cope day by day and giving you her unconditional love. You are also being covered by prayer.

Your personal note is so touching, and shows such courage. Remember courage isn’t the absence of fear, it’s the facing of fear! Your are one courageous woman, filled with hope, and beautifully human!
Love,
BarbReplyCancel

So lovely to see you back Becca. Sending you big loving hugs and praying that you will continue to strengthen as the days/weeks go by. It is wonderful that you are so obviously loved, in many walks of life including right here on your blog. I’m sure you will throroughly enjoy getting creative again and I know we will enjoy your beautiful projects as always. God bless!ReplyCancel

Becca…..
You are truly a remarkable individual! You are not only exceptionally talended, but you are concerned that we would stay with you after your troubled times and tremendous loss?? I for one am here for the long haul. You have given us all inspiration beyond belief!! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I was delighted to see you on the site today. Know that you should not feel any pressure from any of us as we can be very patient and we look forward to the day you feel you are ready. May God bless you and protect you.ReplyCancel

Dearest Becca,

I just visited your site today and saw your news. My heart goes out to you and your family. I was so saddened to hear of your loss and the pain and grief I know you are feeling.

It is with great joy that I read your husband knows our great and loving Savior and is, at this moment, with Him. Our hearts can rejoice knowing that one day you will see him again. I know it is still painful and will be for a while, but I pray that Jesus will wrap His loving arms around you and comfort you and your family as we know only He can do.

May the Father’s peace and comfort be yours today and always.

Blessings,
TerriReplyCancel

Dear Becca,
What a touching blog post. Please know that you’ve been and continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. You were indeed blessed to have such a wonderful husband – and he too was equally blessed to have you. God Bless.
— ChinnuReplyCancel

It was so good to see your post today. I check in daily wondering how you are doing, and continue to pray for comfort for you and your family. I know you probably don’t think you are right now, but, you are such a strong woman. It’s evident that your strength comes from the Lord. He’s been with you, and will continue to be with you through these sad times. Take those baby steps, and when it’s too difficult to take even baby steps, the Lord is there to carry you. Take the time you need. I’ll keep you in my prayers. Peace to you.ReplyCancel

Becca,

You have been in my thoughts and prayers daily since I heard the news. My prayer for you is that the smiles from all your happy memories will help you through the tears from your grief. May God sustain you and carry you through this hard time.

TamiReplyCancel

Becca,
The Bible says you reap what you sow. You have sowed so many wonderful blessings into your blog friends and I am proud to be one of them. The world doesn’t understand that but we do and I am blessed by your ministry to us through your amazing talents!
I understand exactly what you are talking about when you said it feels like the air has been knocked out of you. My dear Mother lost her battle to cancer in August and I miss her so much. But thank God, we have the blessed assurance of knowing we will be with our loved ones again some day. It is hard but I just have to take one day at a time. I am continuing to hold you up in prayer. I know you know the God of comfort and peace.
I appreciate you more than words can express. You take all the time you need and I will be here with all your other blog friends when you are ready to craft again. It really can be excellent therapy to pour yourself into what ever helps you through. Do it for yourself!!
TerryReplyCancel

You are in my prayers Becca. I can’t imagine how hard this must be for you and your family. I loved the card that John made for you and the story you shared about his surprise for you, that was so touching.
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Becca, your strength is amazing. But as you said you and John had the icing on the cake. Having been sent home to die you both knew how precious, yet fleeting, life is. He got to have that icing. You both learned “not to sweat the small stuff”. I’m sure that he’s looking down on you and watching over you. I’m also sure that he’s as proud of you now as he always was.

Take your time Becca…we’ll be here when you are ready. We’re not going anywhere. Your heart will tell you what is right for you, listen to it. Just remember that you have more friends than you know.
Sending a hug,
R/ReplyCancel

Becca, my heart goes out to you. I echo all that has already been said above. I know that you will find renewed strength for this time. Isn’t it wonderful to feel love from around the world! Love and hugs from Downunder.ReplyCancel

You have been in my prayers daily. Know that I love you and you will continue to be in my prayers. Your strength is amazing to me. My grandmother died of multiple myeloma and we have a friend who has had it for 8 years now. May God keep his hand on your heart as it healsReplyCancel

God will be your strength through it all, Becca. You will be in the sunshine again soon & out of these dark shadows. God bless you & fold you in His loving arms.ReplyCancel

Dear Becca
I’m so happy to hear your words ,thoughts and feelings. Your so very dear and full of faith and such a wonderful artist..that’s why so many love you. Your an inspiration to all of us.
God Bless you and your family in these heavy times. I know you will come through and your work will show the growth you’ve gone through to come out the other end.

take care and keep the faith..our prayers are with you and your family

patReplyCancel

Becca, just a note of love from New Zealand, to wish you a safe journey through this time of grief. And also to thank you for your sharing of your life, your love and your creativity through your blog.
All over the world people are wishing you peace and offer many shoulders to cry on and with!ReplyCancel

Becca, It is good to hear from you I am sure it’s a rough road and I still pray for you daily. You are always in my thoughts and prayers. I am glad you have your blog and the support of us to help you and those that can physically be with you. I’m seeing that the blog family are caring loving people and I am glad to be a part of this family.
I hope when you are reay to get back that you take baby steps and don’t over do. Please take care of your health and eat right and stay strong. Hugs to you and prayers always.ReplyCancel

Hi Becca, so good to hear from you. I am so glad you have all the wonderful memories of your life together with John. May these, along with God’s help, continue to sustain you through this rough time. Prayers for you and your family.ReplyCancel

Becca, just know that not a day goes by that we all don’t think of you, pray for you and miss you. But, only you know how much time it will take to heal from such a great loss. I can only imagine as I have thought so many times how I would feel and how I would cope if I were to lose the love of my life/ best friend in the world as you have. I just can’t imagine. I only know that you are one of the strongest women I know and that you will get through this. John will always be there with you helping and watching over you as will the man upstairs. So when you are feeling better and breathing easier little by little and decide you are ready……………..we will be here waiting.
Hugs and God Bless!!!
MarcieReplyCancel

GOD is good all the time. I know with your faith you will bounce back. Take time to heal.ReplyCancel

“Amazing Grace” what a prophetic title that you gave your blog. I can feel God’s wonderful love and Grace all the way to Houston, TX. Wow, words cannot express how I feel… we are supposed to be blessing and comforting you, but I for one am blessed and touched by you. You are so precious, and you are loved by many. Your amazing testimony of love and faith will touch and bless many for years to come. For now though, take your time, bask in His presence and when you are ready and the time is right, we will all be here waiting patiently for you and your beautiful artwork to return.

Until then, I will pray that you would feel God’s prescence, you would feel Him holding you in the palm of His hand, comforting you and covering you with His peace, the peace that passes all understanding. God Bless You!

Love and Hugs from one of those too shy to mail a card,

Sammie BryantReplyCancel

Hi Becca, I am so happy to hear your sweet “voice” again!!! You take all the time you need to move from grief to remembering all those wonderful memories, happy, sad, funny, and silly!!! They will be there waiting for you!!! Love yourself as much as all of us love you… Hugs and prayers!!!ReplyCancel

Becca: There is nothing I can say to ease your pain. You are truly a lovely lady. Your husband and you were blessed with something special. May God keep you safe and help ease your pain.ReplyCancel

I can’t imagine the loss you feel. Prayers for you and yours are being said and I hope you know how much we all care for you. You are surrounded by love.ReplyCancel

Oh, Becca, your post just made me cry right along with you. You have such a sweet and tender heart. You should take all the time you need. Your journey continues and your reliance on God will be even stronger. As you know, God will see you through and you will be a blessing to others in ways you may not even be aware of. Your post here has given me pause to make certain that I make the most of my time with my best friend of 27 years.

I have been following you for less than a year, but you are first in my “Favorites” list to blogs to view. Your blog has been such a blessing to me. Thank you!ReplyCancel

Becca,
It’s good to hear from you. God’s strength will be your strength and he is there with you all along the way. John will be with you every day in your memories.God has blessed you and your family and will continue to do so. We all think of you and your family often.

LoveReplyCancel

Becca I am still holding you and your family up in prayer. You are like family that I visit daily. Hugs. :)ReplyCancel

Becca,
I have so enjoyed your beautiful blog for sometime now, your cards are gorgeous and you are such an inspiration to me…
I am SOOOOO sorry for the loss of your wonderful husband, I know how much your heart is hurting, I lost my precious Mom just a few years ago at Thanksgiving and I still hurt but I know she is with the Lord and I try to rejoice for her, but at the same time I SOOO miss her!
I will lift you and your family up in my prayers Becca, May God bless and give you peace!
Hugs
Linda GilliamReplyCancel

May God continue to bless you and your family. May He give you the comfort that only He can give.ReplyCancel

I will be continuing to keep you in my prayers :) May our Lord keep you wrapped in His loving arms and bring you peace and comfort. Take all the time you need because we will all still be here when you come back. We love and appreciate you.ReplyCancel

Becca- I’m so happy to have you back. I, like many others, checked daily for word from you. Though I don’t personally know you, I think of you often and it’s like missing a friend when they aren’t there for a while. You take the time you need. I’ll say it often, your “friends” will be right here waiting. You’re such an inspiration to so many people, in more ways than one. We love youReplyCancel

Dearest Becca, I have followed your blog for a very long time now and was deeply saddened to hear of the death of your husband. And although I am sad for you and your loved ones I am happy that John knew Jesus as his personal Lord and saviour. With Jesus in our hearts, we never need to fear death.
I am holding you in my heart and hugging you in my prayers.ReplyCancel

Becca… Amazing. Grace. Paper and otherwise!

{{{{ HUGS }}}} I know how your heart must hurt. Wish I could do more to comfort it.

Lots of love and hugs !ReplyCancel

My heart is still heavy for you, Becca, but you are one of the strongest women in faith that I know, and you will be lifted forward and remain joyful in your memories of John. Love you.ReplyCancel

Thank you Becca for showing us a way to find the good when it seems there is none. My heart is with you during this terrible time. God’s love is shining through you – NimmyReplyCancel

Take your time.ReplyCancel

One day at a time…

{{{Hugs}}} and love to you and your family.

Thank you for sharing!ReplyCancel

Ohhhh Becca, it is so good to hear from you. We all have been thinking of you and praying every day. I checked my email every morning hoping to see you were back. We have missed you. You have given all of us so much strength and courage. Those wonderful memories of John will help you through these hard times.
Your beautiful cards and projects are so very inspirational.
When I make things, your site is the one I head for. I try to make all my things as beautiful as yours.
Your inner beauty shines through on all your craft work.
Bless you and yours. Hugs CherylReplyCancel

Becca, I sat here and read your love story and teared up for you sharing how much John was the love of your life. I don’t know about the disease he had, but I “Totally” understand that God wasn’t finished with him yet here on his earthly home and that is why he was given the additonal years. God is doing the same with my husband and I treasure each day with him and we try to live it to the fullest.

Your creations are an enormous inspiration to us all and most of us feel inadequate when we try to compare our work to yours and there isn’t even an 1/8 of comparison.

Know that we “ALL” are right there with you in spirit as you take baby steps in healing. Don’t rush yourself, we all will be waiting patiently to see the wonderful creations you have yet to share with us.

The main thing is to continue to bask in the Lord’s love and feeling his arms holding you tightly as you walk the path of healing your grief.

Just think John will be waiting for you with open arms when it comes time for you to go home to see Jesus!

Your friend Kelly whom I know is an absolute BFF! You are very fortunate to have a friend that close to you tohelp and love you during this time.

You’ll be in prayer 24/7 and I will be checking back from day to day to see how you are. Sending you a big “Sister to Sister in Christ” Hug!

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Becca,

we are here to be your ears anytime you need to lend them. We too are blessed – by hearing from you.

You will do things at your own pace and you will deal with your loss in the same way – we are all different so its no use saying how I dealt with something. Anyway, its not very often i’m lost for words, but I was totally shocked when your dear friend told us the terrible news. I can’t imaging what you are going through at the moment but please know that I will always be here to listen and look forward to your blog posts – whether that includes a card or project or not. If it helps to talk about john on your blog – talk away. you’ll be amazed how many people are willing to listen.

Take care of you and may God bless you and your family

Paula, Derbyshire, UK. x x xReplyCancel

Dearest Becca,

I have to admit, that I haven’t left a message on your blog of sent you a card yet, as I was at a complete loss for words. I knew just how much you and John meant to each other, and was completely shocked by the news of his passing. I did mention of you and John on my blog one day, and it sent a few prayers your way. You were a friends to me at my sadest point in my life thus far, and I can do no less for you! My blog is in existance due to your encouragement, my inner strength is greater because of you. My faith is stronger because of you! Though we have never met, I love you as I do all of my friends! I hope and will continue to pray to the Lord to give you the strength that you need to get though this difficult time! I can’t even begin to imagine how you must feel as I too would be completely lost without my dear husband by my side! God Bless, and keep creating!

Love and hugs, Lisa AthaReplyCancel

Becca, your words are beautiful!
They say time heals, but I don’t know if that’s true because I never have been in such a situation. What is true is that you are surrounded by people who love you and that cares about you…You are not alone!
Hugs & BlessingsReplyCancel

Dearest Becca….I just discovered the entries about your beloved husband…you are so brave and so transparent to share everything with all of us. I will make this short, but just wanted you to know how much my heart has been touched by your experience. May God continue to comfort you and your family. SusanReplyCancel

Becca, thank you for sharing your journey with us. You are an inspiration. I continue to keep you in my prayers every day. Hugs, JudyReplyCancel

Isn’t it amazing that you don’t have to actually “know” someone to know them? A friend of mine and I were talking about you the other day, saying how much we love your work, and that you’ve been in our thoughts and prayers these past few days.

God has you in the palm of his hand. We all will continue to hold you close in thought and prayer.

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My Girlfriend,
WOW!!! You do have a way with words. I am so blessed by your talent and all the beautiful and breathtaking cards and creations you make to share with the world. I can’t imagine what you are going through by the parting of your soul mate…but I do know what it feels like to have to let go of someone you love so dearly. On Thursday…it will be 10 years since my dear Mother suddenly went home to be with the Lord. Somedays it seems like just yesterday. However, I feel her presence with me anytime I need her near. It will amaze you how close John will be there when you need his spirit to comfort you. There is a peace that really do pass all human understanding that brings comfort in the lonely days and nights ahead. Your heart aches but John will be there in spirit to heal the heartache. I know because Mom did for me. Having Jesus makes all things possible in times like these. We as children of God can get through anything with Him carrying us. Let Him carry you as long as you need Him too. The first everything without John will be the hardest and with the holidays coming upon us…know that we will all have you in our thoughts and prayers. Surround yourself with those you love…that’s what got me through. Do what you love to do…go with your emotion of tears whenever they come and don’t apologize for a single tear. There is healing in those tears. Time really does heal…but there is no time limit on how long it takes…each persons situation takes it own time.
Be encouraged…Keep the faith…Trust Him…
Hugs and Prayers continually for you and your family…Wanda MReplyCancel

Becca, even though you were amazingly blessed with the gift of John, and you are now grieving the loss of his presence, you still are blessing the rest of us! You are truly an amazing woman. Your faith and wisdom are what God’s grace is all about. So, thank you. Thank you for shining with God’s love in your darkest moment. I only pray that I can be as graceful in face of adversity as I see in you.

We will continue to lift you up in prayer.ReplyCancel

Oh Becca I’ve been away doing the holiday bazaar thing. Tonight is my first chance to get on the computer in weeks. I am so very sadden to hear of John’s passing. I know you take comfort in knowing John is with Our Heavenly Father and is now healthy and happy beyond words. I will keep you and yours in my heart and prayers.
Blessings
BernieReplyCancel

Oh Becca, so good to hear from you, we all love you so much and will continue to lift you up in prayer as you face each difficult day. I am just so glad that you have so many wonderful memories of John. And that he was such an inspiration to you, we all know that he wants you to go on.
God Bless you every day you get up & brighten our worlds with such Artist Talent. We as your followers thank you for that. Your creations are just breathtaking!
Hugs, SheilaReplyCancel

Becca
You are always so gracious and caring to everyone. Thanks for always being you and sharing even through your pain to be a true testimony that God is at work in you and through you. You have been in our prayers and we continue to keep you there as you take it day by day.
I am always drawn to your blog and love the work you do and the light you reflect within. God Bless you Becca!ReplyCancel

Dearest Becca – I have thought of you and prayed for you every day since I heard of the death of your much beloved husband John. My husband is called John too and I can’t imagine the depths of your pain. My heart is filled with sorrow for you and your family too… Where would we be without Jesus to hold on to and keep us going one day at a time? My dearest friend in the world is going through terminal cancer right now and I hold onto the words of Christ himself to help me get me through these days and be strong for her… “I will never leave you, or forsake you.” God bless you, crafting friend. From Gill in UK xxxReplyCancel

I will keep you in my prayers, sending love and much affection !ReplyCancel

Becca, welcome back to many open arms.
You and your family are very lucky to have known a love so strong and pure. Many of us will never experience what you and John had.
You were lucky to have had John much longer than planned.
We had my father 4 years longer than the doctors gave him. Thank God for allowing us to enjoy more time with him.
The healing process will take time but don’t make any major decisions for a while. Wait until your pain is lessened and you will make better choices.
God Bless You!ReplyCancel

Thank you for such heartfelt feelings. You are the “Amazing Grace” in our lives. You are so loved and that is the greatest gift…. Sending you a hug with love.ReplyCancel

Beccca, You have so much faith in our Lord, it gives all of us more faith. I know what you are goig though, I lost my Husband to cancer and it not easy road back to normal. Maybe you never get back to normal. You have my love and prayers. Hugs Charlene WileyReplyCancel

Hi Becca,
It’s wonderful to hear from you, thank you for posting at such a sad time.

God bless you
Marion UKReplyCancel

I just found your Blog the other day thanks to someone looking for a particular tutorial on SCS. I had to check it out and knew immediately that I needed to sign up for your blog newsletters/updates. I am so very sad to read of the passing of your beloved husband. As many others have said, the love of your family, friends and faith will help you to gently move over the bumps and around the spaces that your loss has created. I send my best wishes to you and your family as you start this new journey…and I look forward to getting to know you a bit better through your words and creative talent that obviously touch the hearts of many. Take good care….ReplyCancel

It is so good to hear from you, I can only imagine how rough each day can be, praying God lifts you and brings you peace, and the strength to get through each and every day!ReplyCancel

I’ve been gone since the middle of Oct. and am just reading of your loss, and your testimony of grace. I’m thankful for y the gift of John in your life and no matter how long God let him stay here, it wouldn’t have been long enough, but you still have “forever” to look forward to in Heaven, and that hope in God gets us through. I will be one of the many praying for you during this time and hugging you from afar. You have blessed so many of us with your talent and your witness for the Lord. Thank you for sharing.ReplyCancel

I think of that post often, especially this past week. it was so touching and showed a very tender moment for a very loving, special couple. You and your family continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.ReplyCancel

When you first notified us of John’s passing, I immediately thought of this card he had made for her. Thank you for sharing this story again.
God Bless.ReplyCancel

Dear Becca,

I came across your site not too long ago, been browsing it since. I’ve never been someone who comments on blog posts but i just have to comment here.

I went back to the original post and now i’ve tears streaming down my face. I read the comments on the original post, everybody told you how lucky you are, how loving he is and how it’s so very sweet of him.

I can’t even express myself properly now, it must be a terrible time for you.. I hope that you will brave through it, he loves you too much to want you to grieve for him.

Stay strong and I will keep you in my prayers. God bless.ReplyCancel

BECCA BECCAHOW LUCKY YOU WERE TO HAVE A HUSBAND LI,KKE JOHN FIRST TO LOVE YOU AND SECOND TO MAKE YOIU A CARD . IT
SHOWED JUST HOW MUCH HE LOVED YOU. YOU HAVE SO MANY
MEMIRIES TO REMEMBER HI BT. I HAVE GONE THRU THIS AND IN TIME
YOU WILL BRING THEM ALL BACK.

MAY OUR LOVING LORD WRAP HIS PEACEFUL ARMS AROUND YOU AND FAMILY AND HELP YOU GET THRU THIS. AND LATER TO GIVE YOU
THE STTRNTH TO GO ON.

I SEND MY LOVE TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ALONG WITH MY PRAYERS
AND HOPE THIS MBRINHS A LITTLE PEACE.

GOD BE WITH YOU CYNTHIA BEYNONReplyCancel

I fondly remember the post she did about the card and how lovingly she spoke of John (Mr Becca) and how this card shows his true love for her. I bet they could almost burst because of their love for each other at that moment she came home to find that card…. it was such a sweet thing to do.

Becca – I hope the strength in knowing how much John loved you keeps you going at this time, and I also hope that you have many moments contemplating and remembering all the wonderful times you’ve shared thoughout your time together.

I wish you well, and still keep you in my thoughts.

Paula. Derbyshire, UK.

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Becca was so lucky to have a love like that. I wish for her strength in the days ahead. God Bless.ReplyCancel

You are in my thoughts and prayers, Becca. Hold tight to the strength and love of family and friends.
hugs, SharonReplyCancel

Thank you, Kelly, for keeping us updated. You are a caring friend.
Hopefully, dear Becca knows, that there are a lot of us out there channeling our good wishes to her. I hope it lifts her soul to know how loved she is.
Crafting with love
Cally from across the PondReplyCancel

This is simply beautiful. Thank you for sharing this again. In times of such great loss, it is acts of love like this that keep our loved ones close to us and will bring comfort to our hearts.ReplyCancel

Ooooh that just put chill bumps all over me! How utterly sweet. Becca will treasure that always. God Bless!ReplyCancel

Wow… what a beautiful card and thank you for being such a sweet person to share it with us. I hope that Becca will be able to get back with us real soon. I’m sending a virtual HUG!ReplyCancel

How lucky she is to have a friend like you to share this with us all. I am sure she will look back at these posts with affection. Love to you and all your family Becca xxReplyCancel

I remember being incredibly moved when I saw the post originally and even more so now. Please pass along my sincere sympathies to Becca.ReplyCancel

Well, doesn’t surprise me that Becca would be married to such a kind, considerate man! That card is just the sweetest thing he could have given her, I’m sure. And for no special reason than to simply tell her he loved her. I’m sure that it’ll be a source of tears for Becca in the short term. But in the long term, I hope it brings her joy and sweet memories of her wonderful husband!ReplyCancel

Thanks
I also thought of that card when I read of his passing. He was indeed a special person. How many men would do something like that ?
It is rare when ” two very special people” find each other in marriage.
Becca the depth of your grief is in direct relationship to the depth of the love you both had for each other.

Take all the time you need to come to terms with this terrible loss in your life. Grief can’t be rushed nor papered over with a brave face ! Be kind to yourself . Go ahead and cry, get angry or what ever your true feelings are . Count it a victory for the day if all you could do was get dressed or pay a bill. . Dealing with your true feelings are the best way to recover from a tragic loss in you life.

Right now you are walking in a fog and can’t see the path ahead. In time the fog will lift.
We will be here when you have the strength to return. And it may take longer than you expect.
In the mean time we are sending our thoughts and prayers to help hold you up.

{{{{hugs}}}
BarbaraReplyCancel

Oh Kelly – how wonderful of you to post this precious precious card and tell us the story. I don’t know how I missed the original post because I have been with Becca for a very long time – but I did.
I can’t see the card or read Becca’s post about it without crying. What a wonderful love they shared and how very lucky they were to have each other.
True love doesn’t happen for everyone. I am so happy that they had it.
What a truly beautiful and loving card John made and just to know he had been observing Becca and her work so he could make it is awesome!!
I can play the little scene in my head with a big smile between my tears…..
Becca hasn’t been out of my prayers.
CandyReplyCancel

This is the sweetest thing I’ve ever seen. What a wonderful love. Most people never know this kind of love – I’m so very thankful you had this man in your life and experienced his special magical love.
Still praying that the God of all comfort will overwhelm you with His presence in this great loss.
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What a sweet man! I wish I’d gotten a chance to meet him. But I’m sure glad Becca had him for the time she did. I still have Becca and family in my prayers, and thank you Kelly for stepping into the breach. Just tell Becca we are waiting patiently for her when she’s ready to come back.ReplyCancel

Thanks Kelly for sharing this wonderful memory with all of us. I first found Beccas blog about 6 months ago, but I´ve already learned sooo many wonderful things from her, and know, she´s a very wonderful and special girl, and I really wish her all the best now and hope, she´ll have strength to get throug this without too much pain. I´ll keeppraying for her and her family that´sfor sure, and ofcause she shouldn´t worry about her blog family, cause we´ll all be here waiting for her wonderful creations, whenever she feels ready for that. And ofcause she shall take the time she need. I´ll keepher and her family in my heart and thoughts. that´s for sure.
Thanks again Kelly for stepping inhere now. You´re a true friend to her, which is so good to know. Take very good care both of you,ReplyCancel

Thanks again for re-posting John’s beautiful card for his Becca.Keeping the family in my thoughts and prayers.ReplyCancel

Thank you Kelly for being such a good friend to our dear Becca- My friend told me of John’s passing-and as soon as she told me-the next thing she had to say was how she remembered this card-How awesome Becca’s John was…and yes ,tears did come to my eyes again today. It is so sad when the Lord takes our best to be with him. My He continue to be your strength and comfort thru these coming days- we all love you! God bless!ReplyCancel

Thank you for keeping us updated on our special friend, a friend most of us haven’t met, but admire from afar. She and her family are in my prayers.ReplyCancel

Thank you so much Kelly for keeping us posted on Becca. She is continually in my prayers – moved her to the top of my list in fact! What an amazing card John made for her – in the midst of his own struggles to be thinking with such love for his wife. A treasure she will never part with I’m sure…ReplyCancel

Quelle belle preuve d’amour cette jolie carte!
Je suis bouleversée en lisant ce post les larmes coulent sur mes joues.
je suis de tout cœur avec vous
amitiéReplyCancel

What a beautiful memory to be able to hang on to! I’m reminded of a stamp that says “God has given us memories that we might have roses in December” Praying for you and yours that God will wrap you in his arms and give you comfort.ReplyCancel

Becca, you must feel like your heart has been ripped out…to lose such a wonderful guy. A great marriage is such a blessing; you will get through this through your creativity and the love of family and friends. God bless…ReplyCancel

Kelly,ReplyCancel

How lucky you are, Becca, to have had a loving hubby like John and to have such a caring friend in Kelly. And let us not forget to be thankful for your creativity. Stay strong, Becca.ReplyCancel

The thought of my hubby doing something like this is non-existant. He sounds like he was an amazing man very much in love with his wife – Becca is one very lucky lady to have that to remember when so many don’t. And she obviously has amazing friends too!
Thinking of you all!
xXxReplyCancel

Oh my gosh, what a sweetie he was! Prayers to Becca and her family. Thank goodness too for good friends like Kelly!ReplyCancel

Sending Lots of Love your way.ReplyCancel

It is these wonderful memories that will get her through the coming weeks and monthsReplyCancel

What a wonderful husband and that card is so special, it is a special treasure . This just brought tears to my eyes. What a wonderful friend Kelly is to post and keep us updated. And Becca, I have you in my thoughts and prayers.
BarbaraReplyCancel

Becca and John were truly blessed to have found each other. He must have loved Becca very much to have taken such an interest in what she was doing and to have paid such close attention.
Becca know that you and John inspire us all.
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Oh Becco, I am so sorry for your loss, I am assuming that John had cancer, I know the trials that you have gone through. I cried when I read of your loss and am crying now as I look at the card John made. We never know the why’s of this life but we do know the end result for all of us. Becca you and your kids will continue to be in my prayers. I pray that God gives you peace, understanding and comfort until you all see John again.ReplyCancel

I do remember this posting…the simplest gestures mean the most to our hearts… I have been very meloncholy all week thinking about Becca’s loss… I feel in a daze and I’ve never met her other than through her blog here…her goodness shines through in her words, in her talent. I hope she knows we all think of her often and wish we could reach out and wrap her in hugs…ReplyCancel

What a truly amazing gesture AND husband John was, and what a fabulous gift to remember him by. Sounds like Becca and John complimented each other very nicely and he surely will be missed. Keep strong Becca and I’m sure that your many friends and much prayer, you will get through this most difficult time. Thanks Kelly for all the little updates.ReplyCancel

Becca, you are truly blessed to have loved and been loved by such a wonderful man. He is in Heaven watching over you and yours, smiling down on his talented wife.

This card is amazing.ReplyCancel

I did not see the original post but this is a wonderful memory for you.
In time these memories with bring you so much comfort; right now they might bring tears to your eyes but eventually they will bring a smile to your face. My heart aches for you now because I know you must feel so lost and alone. Your blogging family will be here and offer prayers and words of comfort as you face the future. May God Bless you and your family. Words are so inadequate at this time but may it help to know that you have so many friends and specifially blogging friends who are thinking of you in love and prayers.
Hugs,
LindaReplyCancel

Beautiful!! Thank you for sharing it again and thank you for keeping us all updated. Keeping Becca and her family in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.ReplyCancel

First, Becca must have been very frustrated because her creativity was through the roof. And it seems that when a person is married to someone for long they pick up their craft, whether its husband to wife or wife to husband… after all you are with them alot! John’s card was sooo sweet, what a nice family. And what a good friend you are…ReplyCancel

What a wonderful card. And a wonderful memory for Becca. Thank you for sharing this again.ReplyCancel

I must have missed the original post but I will definitely go back to read it after I post here. This card is so sweet. and he did such a great job on it. It made me teary just reading about it here in this post.

Becca and her friends and family remain in my prayers. May you all be buoyed up in the love of our Heavenly Father whose love and mercies are beyond measure.ReplyCancel

What a very special love. I know Becca will cherish his card and memory forever. Thank you for sharing such a special bond with us.ReplyCancel

I am speechless. What a wonderful story. This was before I started following Becca. But, the one thing I do know since, is that John meant everything to her and that he was a kind and loving sole. What they had was definitely very dear and special and will take a little while for her to grieve and be able to move ahead on her own. Becca is a fighter thou and she is not alone – she has so many of us in her corner and Kelly, she has you. You are a great friend and I know she is blessed to have you. Thank you for taking care of our dear friend.
As I am writing this, the tears just keep coming. Tell Becca that she is in our prayers and thoughts and that we miss her. Give her a big hug and tell her that we will be here when she is ready to return.
Hugs,
MarcieReplyCancel

Becca,

I am so sorry for your loss of John. Julie Buhler (Paper Pleasing Ideals) Just lost her husband Russ last month.
You are all in my prayers. Just remember to take time for yourself each day.

1 Timothy 5:5 “The widow who is really in need and left all alone puts her hope in God and continues night and day to pray and to ask God for help.”

Kelly,
Thank you for taking time out to post for Becca. Please tell her that all of her cyber friends love her and take her time, we will be here.

Love,
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I found this blog sometime after that and have tried to go back through all the archives but still have not finished. I didn’t see this before, but oh how absolutely precious is that card, and even more is the whole gesture! Getting to know this little bit of your relationship just “melted my heart”. You are in my prayers often!ReplyCancel

Love found it’s way into you home in a profound way. May God hold you close as you find your way through these tough, but loving times Becca. John showed in his attempt to make this surprise for you, just how much he loved you, what a wonderful feeling this has to bring to you in this time of sorrow. May peace come to you and those in your immediate circle.ReplyCancel

Oh this card is so sweet. I went to the original post. How this must have touched your heart. What a very special man indeed. You are in my thoughts Becca.ReplyCancel

Thanks for sharing all this with us Kelly. What a special relationship with many treasured memories. Becca, you and your family remain in my prayers!!ReplyCancel

Oh my goodness that is just so beautiful that John would make that for you Becca when you were out. And he did a great job too! Thanks Kelly for sharing that story again. Becca I hope you are hanging in there and getting strength from the mountain of love and support you have, both here and closer to hand. You are greatly loved and admired and I look so forward to seeing you back when you have the time/strength. God Bless!ReplyCancel

TFS!!! Kelly, and for keeping us updated. I’m sure that aside from her loving memories this will be one of Becca’s most prized possessions. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Sending big hugs across the miles.ReplyCancel

Becca I was so sorry to hear of the loss of your husband John my thoughts and prayers are with youReplyCancel

Hi
Oh how SWEET! We are all thinking of you Becca! You are in our prayers.
Desert hugs
LizetteReplyCancel

I wasn’t “around” blogland for the original posting so I was unaware of this. Thank you so much for sharing. What a positively heart-melting story. And what lovely and joy-filled and joyous memories she will have to draw on whenever she thinks of her beloved husband. Becca and her family have been in my thoughts and prayers.
God Bless, Cynthia <ReplyCancel

Becca,

I remember the original post as many do. What a testament of your “love story” – yours and John’s. Many people live a life time and never experience this type of love. I had a similar love story with my “best friend” and love of my life named John. Maybe it is the name John that gushes such a love. After all his name means, God’s grace.

My John wrote me a love letter the year before his homecoming and I have read it many times over. You will find this little card will flood your soul with memories and love each and every time you look at it.

We love you Becca. Love yourself as John loved you – take time, we will all be here when you come back. Until then we are standing in the gap. . love in ChristReplyCancel

I am sitting here crying but I thank you for sharing such a beautiful story. She will have many wonderful memories of such a dear husband.ReplyCancel

Thanks Kelly for the news.

I remember Becca’s original post about this card of John’s.

It brought tears to me eyes then and has done so again.

Such a love.

I pray the memories will bring Becca comfort.

Hugs
Anne (UK)ReplyCancel

I read this and cried. Thier love for each other is clearly evident! I hurt so much for Becca and wish there was something I could do to ease her pain. The greatest thing we can do for her now is pray. Please continue to pray for her and her family during this difficult time!ReplyCancel

I also have tears running down my face. What a sweet story and LOVELY card. Thank you for sharing. God bless you.ReplyCancel

I am so touched by all of this. It makes me so sad that Becca has lost such a wonderful husband, friend and soul mate. But, it also makes me feel happy to know that Becca had such a wonderful man to share her life with on this earth.

God bless you Becca, and know that one day you will be re-united with your lovely John again xReplyCancel

That is truly inspiring. That is the kind of flower we all need. A flower that comes from the heart. John must have been an awesome husband. Becca, we miss you but want you to heal on the inside so you can come back to us. God fixes us and puts us back together everyday.ReplyCancel

Thank you Kelly again, for sharing and keeping us in touch with Becca and how she and her family are doing.

As we cherish Becca’s talents she too will forever cherish the card made just for her by Mr. John. (oh, what a memory)

we will continue to pray for Becca and her family as well as for you (a dear friend).

God bless and keep each of you is my prayer.ReplyCancel

Oh what a sweet card and wonderful memory for Becca. John sounds like an amazing man and she will surely being missing him terribly. I hope she continues to think on the happy memories and that is love for her can keep her encouraged and pressing on.ReplyCancel

I was just telling a friend about you (she’s trying to organize her stamp room), anyway I clicked over here to send her the link and read the last few posts… I am so sorry for your profound loss, though I have to say that I am deeply touched by the very sweet stories you’ve shared about the 2 of you. I hope your heart heals a little each day… God Bless you & your family!ReplyCancel

Thank you for sharing this lovely card from John to Becca again. Its precious and something beautiful that Becca will forever cherish. Thanks also for stepping in and notifying the blog world of this sad news of loss. Youre a great friend to Becca. Know that everyone is thinking of you BECCA and sending you the biggest {{{{Cyber HUGS}}}} possible. It must be so difficult for you right now. Dont think John would want you to withdraw, he loves you too much. In his memory, keep creating and reaching out and know that you are loved by millions, (as it reflective of your numbers here. :) So try to Stay strong with your faith knowing you will reunite with your LOVE John up in heaven someday. :) Your friend, AmericaReplyCancel

Kelly…Thank you for your gentle kindness and care that you give to Becca. You are a TRUE friend! I was bawling when I saw this memory of the story of John’s ultimate love when he gave Becca this card! I always remember the first time I saw Becca’s blog (after seeing her work on several other sites and reading about how sweet she was). I remember reading her definition under her picture, “I’m a . . . child of God, a wife, a mother, a daughter, a sister, a friend, a crafter, a stamper and more. Yet I’m hopeful that this little box of text…” and so on… Well I could see that this is Becca and her relationship with God shines through in all that she does. It was apparent immediately.

The relationship with God shone through in her marriage as it does with all of her family and friends. This will be her strength and hope and courage as she gets through this difficult time. God will be with her all along as we all pray for her as she grieves for her dear John. So many blessings go out to her as she takes all the time she needs!ReplyCancel

How precious. thank you for sharing.ReplyCancel

Thank you for sharing this – I must have missed that post, so I went back and read it. What a wonderful memory (among many) that Becca will have of her precious husband.ReplyCancel

Oh my goodness. I am really behind. I have pretty much been out of touch with my stamping friends lately as life is doing it’s thing and I’ve been left to catch up and try to keep up. At that point you know something has to give and for now it has been my stamping. I just decided tonight to try to catch up on a million blog posts that I am behind on. How surprised I was to read this today.. I am so sorry for your loss Becca. I know how strong your faith in the Lord is and his arms of comfort will surround you. Now you and Julie Buhler are at the top of my list! Please know we will be praying for your adjustment to a new normal. May God be nearer to you than you have ever known before! {{{HUGS}}}ReplyCancel

I don’t know what I can say that has not already been said by everyone else. God has bless you with many years of memories that will be with you forever. All of us feel your loss and we will keep you and your family in our prayers during this most difficult time and always.ReplyCancel

This card is truly a treasure.ReplyCancel

What a beautiful card they made together! It certainly does show his love for Becca and for eachother. My prayers continue to be with you Becca!
hugs,
ChrisReplyCancel

I have not blog hopped in a while. I came to vist AG. It sadden me to read about Ms. Becca lost. I follow Paper Pleasing Ideas ( Ms. Julie) she too just had the pasting of her husband. As I read the blogs and see what familes are going thru during their journey. I would like to say thank you for sharing so much of yourself and if I could give back what you give out I would. So may God bless you as you go thru down this path of the journey. May He keep you company, safe, and comfort your spirit. Blessed are those who give selflessly. SaBrinaReplyCancel

This was the first time I had ever seen the post and it hit me HARD……dear Becca, what a joy the Lord gave you in this man! I am sure that this has a very special place in your home and of course in your heart.
And thanks for your very special friend keeping us up to date………..your life has been truly blessed.ReplyCancel

Becca Dear just wanted to stop in today and say that I am continuing to lift you up to our Heavenly Father in prayer.
Hugs from Canada
CrystalReplyCancel